Last March I wrote about how I wanted life to be different in a year. Over the course of the year, I looked at that post, just to remind me to stay on task. I think I did pretty well!
I wanted to feel OK on my own - I did this one! I went to several things around Austin, always on my own, but never fully alone. I had a good time doing it, too. I made eye contact and spoke to with others, I found my way around fairly easily. I saw a couple of great concerts, a few movies and shows, visited art shows and parks, shopped and ate out, and in general "got out there".
I wanted to decide where to land - I decided to stay put until interest rates go down. At which point I might start investigating a smaller home.
I wanted to have the garage in order, with some big items gone from my life. I did this one very well! I just have a few items to deal with and right now, they aren't in my way or causing me to lose sleep - they are on the list of things to handle in 2026. Some jewelry was sold. The garage was completed overhauled and painted. The Baja is gone.
I wanted to have several big things done at Rustown, and I did a lot of that. Carpeting might happen this year. I was able to attend to a lot of painting, repairs, and replacement of things like a couch, the garbage disposal, and a power switch. I also created a sewing room and a guest bedroom.
I wanted to progress in therapy, and I am happy to say that I did. I know that there will still be grief, sadness, loneliness - all of the things. But I feel that with the help I have gotten, the things I have learned, and this blog which helps me organize my thoughts and feelings, I am doing so much better than this time back in 2025.


Congratulations! What great accomplishments and demonstration of commitment to life goals.
ReplyDeleteThank you - not always easy to do, but I didn't give up. (:
DeleteGina this is a positive and motivating update. Doing things alone is my angst and getting motivated to do big projects is challenging. Well done.
ReplyDeleteI keep telling myself "no one is coming to rescue you, Gina". If its to be, its up to me.
DeleteWell done, my friend! You should be proud of yourself. Perhaps a little treat, just for you? A new book, manicure, or a big hot fudge sundae??? Have a cozy weekend. : )
ReplyDeleteHmmm...I like the way you think!
DeleteWow, that's quite a list of accomplishments! Congratulations!!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Kim!
DeleteYou've not just met goals and improved life, but I repeatedly find your progress inspiring!
ReplyDeleteThank you! I still have a ways to go, and I hope it will get easier.
DeleteAs others have said, this is so positive and a testament to how you are choosing to live
ReplyDeleteSiobhan
Thank you - that gives me much encouragement!
DeleteYou should be really proud of all of your accomplishments!
ReplyDeleteYa done darn good ya' did!
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