Tuesday, February 4, 2020

How do you normally spend your weekends?

*I'm using writing prompts from Rustico and although I won't blog a post everyday, I will try to do it at least once a week!
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{During the week, I also blog a weekend re-cap on The Cannary Family so that I can journal our weekends.}  Since we both still work full-time, Mark and I have only two full days each week to "go and do" together and we try to fill those days with as much exploring and relaxing as we can.  (read: NOT wasted on housework or chores at Camp Rustown)  Sometimes that means we drive a bit - visiting new wineries, a brewery, or distillery and enjoy the beauty of Central Texas.  There's no one at home waiting for us and no one to tag along.  Sometimes we will meet my sister and BIL somewhere, but just as often its just us two.
Which is fine.

Mark at Vista Brewing

When our kids were little, we had no money for such things, and weekends were a chance to catch up for the week on laundry, groceries, etc.  So we were mostly hanging out at home, though we also went to parks, the pool, and such.  When our family grew to six of us, I went on the weekend shift at work.  There was no way we could have afforded daycare for four kids in the summer.  Mark was the one shuttling them to scouting or swim team or bowling or karate or birthday parties. It was drudgery at times, sure.  But, it baffles me that people take kids to breweries and wineries.  With both parents drinking.  Not to be all judgey, but even if we'd had the money to do that, we wouldn't have.

Highlands

Sometimes weekends are a time for hanging out at Highlands (our property in Burnet), listening to all of the "quiet" from our lounge chairs,  enjoying nature during the day, a quiet firepit at night.  We might eat breakfast out at a favorite Mexican restaurant, or or work on some projects up there like the current barn build-out.  But mostly we recharge.  On Sunday afternoons we walk down to the swing at the far end of our drive for a view of the lake and just sit and talk about future plans.  Its very bittersweet to walk back up the hill, pack up the truck, and head back to Austin.  But we know that we have a cozy home to come home to, usually with a nice dinner.  
And since most weekends are over in a flash - we want to spend them like shiny new pennies!


2 comments:

  1. Your weekends sound delightful!

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  2. I pretty much enjoy every day, so the weekends really don't make any difference to me. I do tend to stay home during them though, because that's when other people are out. :-P

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