Mom
She had such strength. She may have cried and felt immense sadness, but she always managed to "pull her socks up" (her words) and get on with the business of life with great dignity. As a single working mom, she set such a strong example for me and I try every day to think of that as I navigate this whole messy grief life. Did she feel her losses deeply? Yes. Did she manage to create a life for herself just the same? Also yes. And she never forgot Jim, a big loss. She forever loved and missed him, but carried on bravely with faith. She was a powerful force in my life.
Mark
His love for me was true, steadfast, and strong. He never stopped loving me, even when I was un-loveable. He may have been cross with me at times, but it never changed how he felt about me deep down inside. No matter whether he harbored some regret in his life over choices he made, I always knew where I stood with him. Did I push his buttons? Yes. Did he push mine? Also yes. I hope I was able to express to him how much he meant to me.
The best things about two of the best people, who I miss deeply.
*I'm following a series of prompts for a few posts.
Sounds like 2 incredible people whose life offered great advice. One of our elder;s favorite quotes, "Our lives may be the only Bible some people ever read." Mark and Mom sound like good reads.
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